Love ♥ Suicide

was busy preparing for my finals this few days

SM oh SM~~~

when i was blurring around relaxing my mind,

i came across to a disappointing news in FB last nite

a fren shared out a link of the 'last note' of a guy who took his own life over a gal

he was a 22 yr old, quite good looking guy

took his own life, jumping down from his 14th floor home

after breaking up with his GF who he dated for 4 months...

为女死，为女亡 (die because of a girl)

is what most ppl commented on his deed...

there are so many different opinions for his death~~~

some uttered hatred on his ex GF saying that she caused his death

while some expressed condolences for his stupid act~~~

some extreme ppl even scolded on his FB saying that he will no RIP,

adding that ppl who choose to suicide does not have the right to RIP~~~

wow... his death has become a great issue drawing so many attentions

i personally felt sad for his family & friends for the loss

but it's not a sympathy to his death...

it was his choice...

the life was his, & he's the one who chose to end it~~~

no one shud be blamed for his loss

including his ex GF...

in his 'last note' he mentioned a lot of memories of him & his ex GF

saying that the 4 months time is the happiest moment in his life,

but why now he chose to end his life???

is this the right way to prove to someone how much u love her???

by committing suicide for her???

& leaving a haunting memory in her life???

is this true love???

u have the courage to jump down, but u don't have the courage to move on

also,

in his 'last note'

he begged for forgiveness on behalf of his ex GF

saying that it was not her fault...

it was just 'SHE GAVE HIM THE COURAGE TO END HIS LIFE'

what rubbish are you talking about here...

if you don't want to put her into hot soup bcos of ur suicide

why on earth u make ur suicide plan in public???

u have the mood to snap ur last crying pic 

& writing a bilingual last note before posting in ur FB...

i can't really understand what's ur motive doing all this stuffs

u thought that u'll be memory in ur ex GF???

NO~~~

it's not a memory...

it's a haunting tragedy that might disturb her for the rest of her life

now that everyone is hunting for her for opinion

ur selfish deed has brought sadness & distress to all the ppl around you

there's always a saying...

only the left behind people is the saddest when you leave...

now that u're gone~~~

not feeling anything but what about the one who are still here???

there are so many ppl out there struggling for their life

but you just end yours like that...

you've never respected your life...

& you never appreciated your parents' effort in bringing u up~~~

well, maybe there's only LOVE in your life

that nothing else can take over it

that you chose to end your life...

now that there's no 'Take 2' in life~~~

may your soul rests in peace

if u do have a chance to be human in ur next life

pls, appreciate ur life...

v ask for life, not for death~~~

to those out there who are having the intention to suicide...

pls think twice~~~

think about the one who loves you....

they needs You!!!